{"id":37271,"date":"2019-01-24T06:00:28","date_gmt":"2019-01-23T21:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.panamera-life.com\/?p=37271"},"modified":"2019-01-18T12:53:18","modified_gmt":"2019-01-18T03:53:18","slug":"porsche-give-mylife-many-things","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.panamera-life.com\/en\/entry\/porsche-give-mylife-many-things\/","title":{"rendered":"How Porsche Strengthened Our Marriage and Enriched Our Lives"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 class=\"style3a\">Always Having Fun\u2026<\/h3>\n<p>The comment I see most often on this blog is, \u201c<strong>I always enjoy reading your posts.<\/strong>\u201d I\u2019m grateful for every comment, whatever it says, but hearing that someone finds the blog <strong>fun<\/strong> makes me especially happy. That\u2019s because one of the things I care most about in running this blog is:<\/p>\n<p class=\"well3\"><strong>\u201cMaking it a blog people enjoy reading.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The power of fun is remarkable. When a place feels fun, people naturally gather there. And when more people come together, more information and ideas flow in, opening the door to all kinds of new possibilities. Imagining the futures that this \u201cfun factor\u201d might create always gets me excited. <span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">(Though I do sometimes get carried away dreaming about things that may never happen!)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-2490\" src=\"https:\/\/www.panamera-life.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/IMG_6234-e1530661142758-800x533.jpg\" alt=\"Rear of a Porsche 981 Boxster GTS\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m a serious person by nature\u2014in fact, my school reports always described me as a \u201c<strong>well-behaved child<\/strong>.\u201d So before I know it, I\u2019m in serious mode, writing something with not a hint of humor. That\u2019s why I make a conscious effort to ask myself: <strong>Am I enjoying writing this? Will readers enjoy it, too?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In a face-to-face conversation <span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">(and maybe on YouTube, too)<\/span>, there are plenty of ways to communicate: facial expressions, tone of voice, and more. A blog, though, has only words. So I\u2019m always trying to find ways to use those words to bring a scene to life and show what my husband and I are like together.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style3a\">How a Personal Porsche Blog Differs from Automotive Media<\/h3>\n<p>There are plenty of automotive publications and corporate-run car websites online. They offer useful information and articles that teach you a lot. They also have brand recognition, credibility, connections with automakers, and the budget to take on projects that <strong>individual bloggers simply can\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They can test the latest models, record lap times at a circuit, interview automaker representatives, and cover motor shows, for example\u2026<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a lot I look at and think, \u201cI wish I could do that!\u201d But as an independent blogger, there\u2019s no point trying to compete on the same terms. I started asking myself, <strong>\u201cWhat can I write about that only I can?\u201d<\/strong> And I found my answer:<\/p>\n<p class=\"well2\"><strong>\u201cA blog people enjoy reading.\u201d<\/strong> <span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">(Of course, it should be useful to readers, too.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Looking back at my older posts <span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">(especially the ones from the early days of the blog)<\/span>, I realize that <strong>I used to write some pretty silly things, and my dialogue was practically all in the Kansai dialect.<\/strong> That kind of personal touch is something a corporate publication can\u2019t easily replicate.<\/p>\n<p>So I decided to make the most of the freedom I have and hold on to that style. That\u2019s not to say I try to make boring things sound exciting. It\u2019s more that <strong>we have fun in all sorts of ways, and I enjoy writing about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-5599\" src=\"https:\/\/www.panamera-life.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_3406-800x589.jpg\" alt=\"981 Boxster GTS with manual transmission\" width=\"800\" height=\"589\" \/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style3a\">How Porsche Helped Our Marriage Through a Difficult Time<\/h3>\n<p>These days, I think my husband and I talk a lot. But for a while after our second daughter was born, <strong>we barely spoke to each other.<\/strong> <span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">(Life with two children was harder than I\u2019d imagined.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>At the time, work took up much more of my life than it does now. I was often so tired from getting the kids to sleep that I\u2019d fall asleep myself, and I wasn\u2019t nearly as interested in Porsche as I am today. Our daily conversation as a couple, <span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">(and I\u2019m not exaggerating)<\/span>, was pretty much limited to:<\/p>\n<p class=\"well2\">\u201cGood morning.\u201d \u201cHave a good day.\u201d \u201cWelcome home.\u201d \u201cGood night.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Neither of us is the type to say, \u201cI\u2019ve got so much to talk about\u2014listen to this!\u201d So if something came up, we\u2019d often send a message during the day and leave it at that. And because of my work, I spent a lot of time thinking about <strong>how to get a message across clearly and concisely in as little time as possible.<\/strong> Before long, I was talking that way at home, too. My husband often told me:<\/p>\n<p class=\"well3\">\u201cMinami-chan, the way you talk and think is totally \u2018like a guy.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At one point, we realized that <strong>we really weren\u2019t talking enough as a couple<\/strong> and sat down to discuss it. But we couldn\u2019t come up with a clear solution, and life went on\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Then I gradually started getting more interested in Porsche. I launched this blog in June 2017, and around April of the following year, I decided to take blogging seriously. From then on, my husband and I slowly began talking more.<\/p>\n<p class=\"well2\">We started going out for drives together more often. After the kids were asleep, my husband would teach me about cars so I could write blog posts, and we\u2019d bounce ideas around: <strong>\u201cWhat do you think of an article about this?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Back when the blog was still getting very little traffic, we pored over the analytics and tried every idea we could think of. <strong>When visits went up, we celebrated together. And when a post we\u2019d poured our hearts into didn\u2019t get the attention we\u2019d hoped for, we talked about what might have gone wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sure, about 80 percent of our conversations are about cars (ha!), so you could say we talk more like work partners than a married couple. Even so, communicating more made our home feel brighter and happier than before.<\/p>\n<p>Before the company, society, or local community, <strong>the closest and most important community is the one a couple builds together.<\/strong> Through these experiences, I learned that a strong marriage is the foundation for feeling happy in everyday life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-740\" src=\"https:\/\/www.panamera-life.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/20170731093828-e1530665797959-800x600.jpg\" alt=\"Porsche 981 Boxster GTS and Panamera\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I\u2019m truly grateful to Porsche\u2014and to this blog\u2014for setting all of this in motion. <strong>For me, Porsche is more than a car, and more than a sports car that taught me the joy of driving. It has become something precious that supports my life from the ground up.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I hope I can keep sharing, in a fun and natural way, how <strong>Porsche can bring a couple closer and make life richer<\/strong>\u2014without sounding like I\u2019m trying to convince anyone.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style3a\">All That Kansai Dialect<\/h3>\n<p>There is one thing I\u2019ve been wondering about lately:<\/p>\n<p class=\"well2\">What do readers think of posts written in a strong Kansai dialect?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-3171\" src=\"https:\/\/www.panamera-life.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/DSC_0465-800x533.jpg\" alt=\"Steering wheel of a Porsche 971 Panamera\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" \/><\/p>\n<p>According to Google Analytics, <strong>the largest share of this blog\u2019s readers live in the Kansai region.<\/strong> The Tokyo metropolitan area has a far bigger population and, surely, many more Porsche owners. So I wondered: Could the Kansai flavor of my writing be a little too strong or hard to follow for readers in the capital?<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe it\u2019s because I often write about the <strong>Royu Driveway<\/strong> and driving spots around Kansai, so it\u2019s only natural to have more readers from the region. I asked about it on Twitter the other day, and got replies like these:<\/p>\n<p class=\"well2\">\u201cIt\u2019s definitely better as it is now. The conversations feel real and come across more directly.\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cI\u2019d never really thought about it\u2026 I don\u2019t think you need to worry about it!\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cThe dialogue has a real sense of presence, and it sets your blog apart from others. I think it\u2019s great!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re all so kind\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I also remember visiting Porsche Japan and hearing a German product specialist\u2014who had lived in Kansai during his student days\u2014tell me in fluent Japanese, <strong>\u201cThe Kansai dialect is one of the things I love about this blog! Please keep it up!\u201d<\/strong> So I think I\u2019ll carry on having fun with Kansai dialect just as I am.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Always Having Fun\u2026 The comment I see most often on this blog is, \u201cI always enjoy reading your posts.\u201d I\u2019m grateful for every comment, whatever it says, but hearing that someone finds the blog fun makes me especially happy. That\u2019s because one of the things I care most about in running this blog is: \u201cMaking it a blog people enjoy reading.\u201d The power of fun is remarkable. 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