A wife who has closely watched her husband grow up thinks it is more important than being a "good man.

The only thing I was aware of

However, there was one thing that I tried to do in my marriage. That was not to "do ____" but, on the contrary, to "not do ____."

Do not restrict your husband's freedom.

It was to be.

Do not stop your husband's "wants" such as "I want to go touring," "I want to go for a ride in a car," or "I want to buy a car."I myself am the type of person who feels tremendous stress when I am not free to do what I want, so I wanted to be free to do what I wanted, too.

But with great freedom comes great responsibility.

There is a difference between "doing whatever you want to do to the detriment of others" and "doing it freely while fulfilling your responsibilities.

I think we somehow understand each other.

I'm starting to feel like I'm just doing things freely, on the other hand...

So, I am not an "upchuck" and I am not a "downer".I met and married my husband, who said, "I want to go up and be successful," and we are here today because he worked hard himself.This article was about my personal view that women would rather spend their energy on meeting men who have a high chance of success in the future than on becoming a "good woman".