A deep look at "As a Wife, Do Not Restrict Your Husband's Freedom" - Why Wives Oppose Their Husbands' Porsche Purchases

I dumped this story on my husband.

When I told him this, my husband had this to say.

Certainly trust is important. But there are some people, for example, CEOs who earn a substantial income and are successful in the eyes of the public, who are not allowed to do as they please. In such a family, either the wife's standards are too high and she has yet to meet them, or he is the type of husband who would grow more if he were given such restrictions.
depending on one's preferenceThere are some people who should be given free reign, and some who shouldn't.I guess. That's what the wife has to figure out, right?

And. Well... when I looked around, I did indeed see "being the bossThere are many men who are insanely successful in the "Mere Old Man". There are a lot of them in the entertainment industry.

However, it is quite difficult to tell which type my husband is. In my case, however, it may be because I grew up as the youngest of two siblings.A caring older sisterly spirit who can spank the other's butt."I'm always too busy with myself, so I don't think I'll ever be wooed by a man who likes women with anego skin.

Her husband continued.

By the way, in my case, I'm not a "The type that needs to be free.In the "I'm a free man," and I'm also motivated to try to win that freedom.
Instead of buying the car of your choice or going touring.Let's learn to make proper money and not complain.Even so, housework must be difficult for them, so they employ a variety of shortening time appliances and housekeeping services to make it as easy as possible.
It costs money, but one of my motivations is to be able to pay for it.That's how big the "passion" for "freedom" is.(Heat again, huh?)
After all.If he wants to be free as a husband, he must overwhelmingly exceed the level of his wife's demands.I think.

I see...my husband is working hard to win his freedom, and I, as a wife, am really sorry for taking advantage of his efforts and letting him get comfortable.If it's that hard, why don't you ask a housekeeper to do it for you?My husband said to me, "I'm not sure I'm going to be able to do this.

For the husband, "I didn't tell her to do her chores properly, but she's always getting frustrated because she's so full of herself, and I don't know what to do.I need you to be in a better mood.I guess he also had the thought, "I'm not sure what I'm going to do.

Also, her husband was

Japanese people tend to feel somewhat guilty about "earning money," but there is nothing wrong with that. First of all, I think it is better to remove this psychological barrier and think about it head-on.
I have always been a "labourI've been conscious of the fact that I'm not aiming for the "XX million yen a year line," as the world calls it.Set a goal of how much money you need to make to achieve what you want to do at that moment, and then achieve it.We have been doing this repeatedly, and now we are here.
Like a company, there is no way a company that is not making money can provide good service to its customers. After all, since the company is profitable, it can invest in creating better services and make its customers even more happy.
I think it's the same for families.Earning money is important because only when you earn well, have freedom, and are satisfied with yourself can you make those around you happy.I think.
I'm still far from my ideal. I'm still far from my ideal.

He said.

...I also hope that one day my husband will be able to say to me, "Thank you for everything.I want to be able to present a Grand Seiko to someone with a big smile while saying, "I'll do my best!

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