What kind of person is my husband who is Porsche driver? I introduced him from my wife's point of view

Mysterious, Porsche-owning husband

On this blog, I mainly write the articles, but my husband, who is usually in charge of the IT and systems area of the blog, also writes articles from time to time.

And at the end of every article my husband writes, his profile page appears, and if you click on it, you can read about his car history...that (something or someone distant from the speaker, close to the listener)Profile screenaccess is surprisingly high each time.

I wonder if you all care that much...w

In addition, the messages we receive on our blog includeYour husband is a very smart man with a brilliant mind, and his calm analytical skills are amazing--he has the skin of a genius."Whenever I saw them, I felt, "Sure, I am a logical person when it comes to whether I am a sensible person or a logical person, but I am completely ahead of my image...w

Also, when my husband went to Ashiu Driveway before, he happened to meet a blog reader who came all the way from Hokkaido and asked for a handshake and a picture.

I shook hands and took pictures as I was told, but I'm not a celebrity or a showman... I wonder if that was the right thing to do...

and so on.

However, he owns several Porsches and knows quite a bit about cars.Who the heck is the owner of this blog...I know that some of you may be thinking, "What is this?" So I would like to introduce a little bit about my husband from my wife's point of view.

If I had to describe my husband in one word, it would be...

My husband started an IT company about 15 years ago and still runs it.

I did not have a specific "how old do I have to be to start a business" in mind, but since my family has been in business for generations, I felt very uncomfortable with the "salaryman's life, going to work and coming home at the same time every day," and I thought, "I should start my own business.I guess I won't be a businessman forever...He vaguely thought, "I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do.

If I had to describe my husband in one word, it would be.

."A person who pursues the state of being comfortable to the fullest."

I wonder if it is.

My husband said, "Don't do what you don't want to do. Or change it to something you want to do.He is a person who is very thorough in his "I'm a man of the world". This character has been with him since childhood.

When I was a child, my parents told me thatStudy.In reaction to this, I didn't study at all, and I even started the second semester without doing any homework during the summer vacation.
I was forced to join club activities even though I didn't want to, so I used to escape during running practice and go home (laughs).
On the other hand, I liked insects, fish, and computer programming, so I was immersed in those favorite things all the time.

He said.

Since my husband had lived his life in such a way, he had no intention of getting married.... Whatever it is...

When I reached the marriageable age, people around me were getting married one after another, but I saw many people whose freedom was restricted after marriage, who had to pay an allowance, or who had to put up with a lot because they cared about their wives, and I thought, "What are those people enjoying living in such inconvenience? I can't do it," I thought to myself.
So I told my parents and those around me, "I will never get married. If I do, I will be the last among my brothers and cousins.He declared.

Yes.

A slightly different marriage with my husband

Such is my husband, but thankfully he's willing to marry me (laughs), and I asked him a long time ago why.

After all, she's different and she's not a normal woman.
And as for her husband's freedom after marriage, "Isn't that enough?Because they have a sense of "I'm not a good person.

He said. I see...

And the first thing my husband said to me when we started our marriage was also quite shocking.

I don't like doing chores, and I don't like to be assigned to cleaning.I don't do housework.But instead, I'm going to pay for things like buying robot appliances and hiring a housekeeping service to make your wife's chores as easy as possible, so I'll do my best to earn that money.

And....

People are talking about "ikumen," or "men who do housework."I don't do housework.I was surprised at first, thinking that it was completely out of step with the times to declare at the beginning, "I'm not going to be a slave to this," but as he said, he has introduced various things over the years to make housework easier, and I am thankful that the current situation is more comfortable than having my husband help me with the housework. I am thankful for that.

And my husband, in all things, starting with the housework, "Pursue your own state of comfort to the fullest.The stance of "I am a good person," has been consistent, and that has not changed since our marriage until now.

Characteristics of her Porsche-driving husband

So, in "pursuing the state of being comfortable", what kind of thinking and actions does my husband do?We are ultra-rationalistic, we evaluate ourselves, and we play on the field where we have the best chance of winning."I wonder if this could be mentioned.

My ultra-rationalistic husband hates waste and often thinks about how to get the greatest results with the least amount of effort.The criterion for judgment is not "common sense" but "whether it is reasonable."So, I'm not sure if we're having a conversation.

"Is it worth it?" Isn't that approach really inefficient? "Have you thought this through from the ground up to see if it's the right thing to do in the first place?"

and so on, and as a result, they often choose methods that people do not do very often.

Next, we will discuss the "A" and "B" in theThe axis of evaluation is yourself.As for the "I don't put much weight on what others think of me," it's more about "I don't think I'm aWhether or not you are satisfied with yourself.I think the importance of the "I think the importance of the "I think the importance of the "I think the importance of the "I

In the early days of my entrepreneurial career, I was surrounded by CEOs my own age who said, "Go public! Expand sales! More employees, more office space!and so on, while her husband

I'm not interested in any of that. I don't care. I want to build a company that is financially strong, not in terms of size, but in terms of profit margin and productivity per employee. I also want to create a person who can quickly take over as president.

and, in fact, that is what the company seems to be doing now.

Also, with respect to cars, "I want to drive a car that people around me say is amazing.It's more like "I drive the car I want to drive.My husband's stance is "I'm not a fan of Porsche. He is now driving a Porsche, purely because he himself is attracted to the performance of Porsche cars.

Therefore, he will drive a Nissan Note or a Volkswagen Golf as long as he likes the car. Conversely, he would never drive a car for the sake of looking good or being appreciated by others.

Then, "Compete in a field where you have a good chance of winning.I wonder if this is why people call me "strategic" and "analytical". I wonder if this is the reason why they are called "strategic" and "analytical," but my husband is "not aWe're going to fight a war we can win."I think the emphasis is on

When I used to be a gunslinger, I'd go to him about ideas for jobs, and he'd say, "I'm not sure I can do it.

Maybe so, but there are so many rivals that you can't win if you do it now.

I was often advised to do so, for example.

Also, when I told my husband a few months after we launched this Porsche blog that I wanted his full cooperation...

I think it's pretty rare to find someone who can own multiple Porsches, write articles on a daily basis, and do a decent job around the blogging system, so that's where the value is. So I think if you take it seriously, you'll win. Good luck.

He said.

Since I act with this way of thinking, I wonder if I appear to those around me as a "high winner" or "smart person" as a result.

So I asked my husband about the above, and he told me how it really is.

I am certainly well aware of these three.If you're not comfortable and happy, you can't make others happy.I don't know.
Also, I'd like to point out that there's no particular "only fight if you can winI mean, I'm getting invitations to do all kinds of business and information on a regular basis, but I'm also getting a lot of information.Never do anything that could be done by anyone else, that you are not suited for, and that you don't know about.I try not to do too many things. So people say I seem to be doing a lot of things one after another, but that is not true at all. I think I am a very cautious person.
And I try to do only what I am good at, what I am good at, and most of all, what I enjoy or feel comfortable doing. Because in those things, I don't feel effort, I don't feel stressed, and most importantly, I don't feel like I'm making an effort.Most able to reach their full potential.From.

He said.

Well... I've had quite a bit of feedback on my blog about these success philosophy talks, and I open it every Saturday at 10:00 p.m.Twitter space (like a radio show)But I sometimes talk about life theories and success philosophies other than car life.

If anyone is interested in my wife and I, we would be happy to hear from you in person at the space.

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