For some time now, I have sometimes told my husband, "How can I afford a Porsche?I've been blogging about it, asking the question, "What is the best way to get the most out of your time in the world?
And when I asked again, "What did you do when you were younger to buy a Porsche?" my husbandI write down my goals for the future in a notebook about once every ten years."He told me that the
And to his surprise, the other day he found that notebook, which he wrote in his twenties, and when he looked inside, he found this.
"I bought a Porsche when I was 33."And.
The actual husband's notebook. It was written on the last page.
(Looks like Porze... and slightly different kanji.(W)In response to this, my husband
My first Porsche actually.(981 Boxster GTS)I bought a Porsche a little later, so my goal of buying a Porsche in my thirties was fulfilled, although my age was a little different. But I forgot that I wrote such a goal.
I was very happy with the result. However, my husband says that although his monthly salary at the time he wrote this goal was about 200,000 yen, it was still "a lot of money.I can afford a Porsche in the future.He had no doubt in his mind that "the "I might not be able to afford it.He said that he had never thought that he would ever be able to afford it, that he had only imagined a future where he would be able to afford it.
When I was living alone on a salary of 200,000 yen, I used to say, "I can definitely buy a Porsche in the future.I never thought I'd be able to do that.
I said, "My husband is a
I guess so.... That's what I usually think, but I didn't doubt it. When I think back, it was when I took the entrance exam for college that I started thinking like this. I had thought that it was impossible, that I was above the clouds, but being accepted into a university became a powerful success experience, and I started to think, "I can do this, I can do this, I can do this.Things are not as hard as the world makes them out to be. You can do it if you put in the right effort in the right direction.From that moment on, I began to feel strongly about it.
And.
The high school my husband attended was not the smartest school in the country, and he was near the bottom of his class and had a national deviation score of 30-40.(Well, apparently he didn't study much for three years of high school.)In the end, I failed every university I tried to enter, so after graduating from high school, I went to a prep school for a year, where the classes were so interesting and easy to understand that I began to enjoy studying.The deviation was almost double that of before, and the following year he was able to enroll in his target university.
It became a great success experience and had a great impact on my husband's future life. Incidentally, my husband had this to say about his prep school experience.
I believe I was born again, at age 19, w I've learned a lot at this age, but I've learned a lot at this age.Among other things, I'm no longer confused by "common sense" or "normal."I think.
When I was a student, I was intimidated by the brand name of difficult universities, frightened by the magnification rate, andThe "common sense" that it is reckless to aim for this university with this deviation.I was quite concerned about the
Then, as a ronin, I met a teacher at a prep school who I still consider my mentor.It is not successful people who are spreading "common sense" and "normal" in the world. Why do you listen to such unsuccessful people?I was told, "I'm not going to be a good person," and that's when my mindset changed dramatically.
He studied the thinking, philosophy, and behavior patterns of successful people. I stopped worrying about multiples, deviation scores, or anything else, and focused only on improving my academic skills and simply scoring 100 points. Then one day, he realized that he had come far above.
In no time at all, I find myself standing in a position that in the past I would have given up on as impossible and thought I was too far above the clouds to even set a goal. And when I experienced that...The sense of "common sense" or "normal" is scary. Let's live as we think from now on without being misled by these things.I thought.
I wish I had met a teacher like that. I wish I could have met a teacher like that (laughs). And it is true that when you experience a great success or an experience that changes your values in some way, be it work or personal, you believe in yourself and keep challenging yourself.
And this story once again reminded me that "To be successful, it's very important to put yourself among successful people.I realized that "the
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