On one occasion, my husband said to me this.
I heard that simply thinking "I want to be rich" or "I want to earn money" is not very good. Because the more you think "I want to be rich" or "I want to earn money," the more you will think "I want to be rich" or "I want to earn money," and vice versa.I am the one who doesn't have money now, the one who doesn't earn it.The state of "I'm not a good person" is imprinted in the subconscious mind, he said. That's why it doesn't go well, apparently.
No, I mean, for example, "I'm making 200,000 yen a month now. Next, I want to be able to earn 300,000 yen.He said, "I like to think of it as...". Acknowledge the fact that you are still making money, and then try to think of it as even more....
In the end, how we feel in our subconscious mind has a big impact on our reality.
And.
At that time, "I see. I think I know what you mean.I responded lightly, "I'm sorry," but the other day I casually read a book and found that it stuck in my mind more than I had expected, and the words of my husband at the beginning of the book came back to my own mind.
And I felt that reading that book was
Let's not get caught up in what we don't have, but look at what we do have and cherish them!
This was the case.
I have long been a "What we don't have nowI think I've always been obsessed with the "Mere Old Man".
I have always been, if I may say so myself."I want to do that!" I want to be this!I have a relatively strong personality of curiosity that has led me to a life of trying and doing many things.
This personality has certainly been a great driving force, especially in my work, but on the other hand, I've always had a craving for whatever I've accomplished, and I've never looked at what I've got at the moment at all.I'm not good enough." "I want to be better."I was only conscious of the fact that
I think that for a long time I was in the same situation that I described at the beginning of this article, a situation that my husband told me I was in.
When I started this blog, I thought, "In the future I will buy my own Porsche with my own money.I set a goal of "I'm going to buy myself a Porsche," but the more I thought, "I'm going to buy myself a Porsche.Now I am not getting my own Porsche.The fact that "the world is a big place," grew and grew inside of me.
But when I think about it, last year I bought my first car in my life, a BMW 320i, in order to be able to drive a manual transmission car, and I never went through with that fact and said, "I'm not going to be able to drive a manual transmission car.I can't afford a Porsche for myself yet.I kept pulling the fact that "the(And I still have a 320i to pay off.)
And even though, thankfully, my husband is now in a position to drive the Porsches thanks to him, somewhere inside of me, I still think, "I'm not going to be able to do that."But they are all my husband's Porsches... not his own...There were many times when I thought, "I'm not sure I can do this.
."What we don't have nowPursuing "the truth" is certainly a motivation to work hard at one's job and life, but if one loses sight of what is important in front of one's eyes, one's life will never be fulfilled.
Thinking back, when I met my husband, of course we did not yet have a Porsche, and we rode bicycles to go to the neighborhood convenience store or to eat conveyor-belt sushi. I had just started my own business at the time, so I gathered up all the video game software and game consoles I had at home, sold them at Yodobashi Camera, and started a business calledOkay, that's 8,000 yen! Now I can live for a week!I was living on the edge.
Now I can drive a Porsche anytime I want and live in a car wherever I go.(I also moved farther away from the train station.)I am grateful for the environment that I have been given in many ways, but I could not genuinely appreciate it, and what a twisted personality I had....
Other benefits include being able to be with my children every day, being able to work from home, and having my husband tell me that heIf you want to work, you can work, if you want to quit, you can quit, whatever you want.and that I have been free to do so ever since I got married...etc.
I'm probably very sensitive because I'm pregnant and my hormonal balance is different from usual.I want to become a person who can pay attention to what I have, a person who can be grateful, and a person who is rich enough to feel happiness in the present.I read the book and thought.
."Buy a Porsche with your own moneyAs for the "buy yourself a Porsche" goal, let's try to look at it a little differently. Instead of simply buying yourself a Porsche, try to think in terms of your current situation.
."Now I can make this much money. So next time, let's earn this much and make a down payment to buy a Porsche first!I will try to feel the fact that I am steadily approaching my goal, rather than the fact that I am not able to do it now.
I laugh to myself as I think about this, asking myself these questions on a daily basis...I really do have a dark personality...but I hope I can continue to step up, step by step, at my own pace and in my own way.
