Recently, Tonara(I'm talking about people who go out of their way to park their car next to yours, even though the parking lot is completely empty.)I decided to think a little about the psychology of the toners and countermeasures, since I often encountered
First, I looked up Tonaller on the Internet and found the same "Can't you do something about the tonalers?I was surprised to see that there were quite a few people who wrote, "I'm a tonaler," and there were many tonaler-related questions and consultations, as well as answers to them, both on Yahoo Chiebukuro and on well-known bulletin boards.
It is also not limited to tonnage of cars in parking lots.People who go out of their way to sit next to you on a bus or train, even though there are other seats available.and "People who dare to sit diagonally across from each other in an empty cafe.I learned that they are called "tonalers," which also includes the word "tonaler.
I guess so... I mean, I'm more afraid of sitting next to someone on an empty train or bus than a car that goes out of its way to park next to me in a parking lot....
The following explanation was posted on the Internet as to why toners generally dare to park their cars next to each other in a rattling parking lot...and the psychology behind it.
It is easier to park if there is a car next to you because you can see it.
(People who aren't confident in parking often seem to be toners.)
It is lonely to park a car by itself, so it is safer to have a car next to you.
(I'm afraid that a single car parked in the middle of the street would be pranked.)
Because I want to park in order from one end of the parking lot to the other.
(Is this a personality issue... or is it Mr. Type A? W)
I don't think about it, I just park there.
(Apparently most people don't think about anything in particular)
And so on.... As far as I can tell from reading these, the human psyche has a "I feel safer with you.I wondered if the feeling of "I'm a toner" was at work, and if it was unconsciously becoming the behavior of a toner.
And so far, we have talked about the general tonaler. What we want to consider this time is the "Toners who dare to park next to luxury and sports cars.About. My husband often goes on long overnight touring trips by himself.You'll always run into a ton of toners.It seems.
However, a long time ago, my husband used to say that when he saw a luxury or sports car in a parking lot, he would say, "I'm not sure I'm going to be able to afford to buy one of those.Oh cool!He was so excited that he "dared to park his car next to that sports car.
It's as if "I'm right next door to a celebrity.He felt like a "I'm a good person" and had the urge to put them side by side. I mean, I was a complete toner myself (-_-).
However, I have come to own luxury sports cars such as Porsche.
If I were to scratch a wheel or a door, how much would it cost to repair it?
I was struck by the fact that Since then, I have been working on the "There is absolutely no need to take that risk and park next to them.She said that she now thinks, "I'm not going to park near a car," and even if there is a car she would like to park near, she leaves one car open. Her husband, however
People who go out of their way to tonner next to luxury and sports cars.I don't know how much that car costs, or how much it will cost to fix it, or anything like that.I think that's why people often park there just for the novelty of it. So, I think that many people stop by just for the sake of curiosity, but considering the risk of something happening to them, I don't think it's necessary to be a toner.
He said.
However, the Tonarrah's are not.They are not violating any particular law, nor are they violating manners in any major way.I think the tonalar problem will be difficult to solve because it is "caused by different people having different priorities and senses". I also feel that this kind of thing often happens on a daily basis in addition to the Tonrar problem.
For example, the
"A mid-level employee at a company said, 'I'm going toYoung employees these days are flatly refusing invitations to dinner from their bosses. Unbelievable.Some people complain that when they order karaage at an izakaya, people who squeeze lemon all over the food without asking others around them are inconsiderate! Some people complain that "people who squeeze lemon all over the food without asking anyone around them are inconsiderate!
I wonder if the Tonala issue is similar to these things....
I'm a car guy.People who take good care of their car do not want to damage it, so they put the car first.But if the car is not that important to you, your thoughts don't extend that far, and you probably don't even realize that you are toning.
So, I wonder if we should leave the "Tonala" problem as it is.... There is even a "BABY IN CAR" sticker, so I wonder if it would be a good idea to put up a "No Toner" sticker or something to show our intentions... (laughs)...
(I just made it up as I went along.)
With this in mind, I was looking at twitter the other day and saw a post on RT that really struck a chord with me.
A close interview with the charismatic host, Mr. Roland(From @otoko_no_kuruma's post)This is a video of a man named Mr. Roland driving his favorite car, a Rolls Royce, and the interviewer said to him, "I've never seen anything like this before.You drive safely.When asked, "What do you want to do?" he said something like this.
You know, there are people who drive these cars roughly. Driving dangerously, cutting in and out, etc., is not cool in the opposite direction.(omitted)Even if I'm interrupted a little bit, I just think of it as a little more time in the car I love, and go ahead.(omitted)
Margin is important.I often compare the spaciousness of mind to the ocean, but let's say you pour a little red paint into the ocean. The color doesn't change at all. But what happens if you pour it into a glass? What happens if you pour it into a shot glass? It turns bright red.
Anger is the same thing, and margin is the amount of water.
So, after all, if I am full, it goes from a glass of water to a pool of water... I don't know how much water I have now because I can't look at it objectively, but if I am interrupted, if I am asked to come in, if I am agitated... well, I am not agitated at all. I don't have to, but it doesn't bother me at all. I just wonder if something bad happened.
...this guy, this god... (*_*)!
I was shocked and at the same time, I really thought that was true. The Tonrar stopped me and said, "Oh, why do you park here!I was annoyed at every single thing that happened to me, and I guess I had a very narrow frame of mind. Of course, if I got door-punched for it, that's a different story, but when something unexpected happens, or when I don't like what I'm seeing, I'm not going to be able to do anything about it.If I have enough presence of mind to let it pass me by, there is nothing wrong with that.
Once again, I wanted to be a person with a broad vessel and a generous heart.(I'm not sure if it solved today's theme of toner problems, but w)
