Is it normal for men to buy women a drink? What a couple of Porsche owners think about the buy-and-be-drunk debate between men and women.

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Is it normal for men to buy the drinks?

Recently on Twitter, a woman's tweet was the topic of discussion.

Why should men pay for the date, you may say, but women spend a lot of money on clothes, makeup, and beauty for that date. They get up early and get ready because they want to be told they look pretty.With that in mind, I would like women to buy a date for me.

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And the husband's tweet based on this tweet had quite a few RTs.

Some of them are "in theSince he drives a Porsche, he could at least pay for a date!Her husband seemed to have commented, "I'm not sure what you're talking about.I was just tweeting as a joke in a light hearted way...He laughed bitterly as he said, "I'm sorry.

The values of men and women.

The man-woman, buy-and-be-drunk argument.

I am sure this is a debate that will never be settled and will be brought up regularly. There are many people in the world with different values, and the way we perceive the world varies greatly depending on our individual views.

In the midst of all this, I think, "After all, interacting and dating with someone who has the same values as you does is a happy thing for both parties, isn't it?That is to say.

Women who want to be bought a drink by aI'd like to buy a woman a drink.You can go out with a man who values "I'm not a man," and a man who wants to split his money with a woman can say, "I'm not a man."Splitting the bill is the normYou can go out with a woman called

I think things like liking a person's face or having a good personality are important factors when it comes to love, but in the long run.Whether the values are similar (or match) is a very important point.I think. (although I don't think any of us have a partner with whom we share all the same values)

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By the way, I was never the type to want a man to buy me a drink on a date.

."I pay for my own food (although I'd be happy to pay for it if they'd pay for it).The stance was that "the

I didn't feel comfortable going to a very expensive restaurant because I assumed I would be paying for it, so when my husband and I went on our first date alone, he asked me, "What do you want for lunch?" With a straight face, he asked me, "What do you want for lunch?Kappa SushiI replied.

."Ew! Aren't you supposed to go to a more fancy restaurant at a time like this!To my husband's astonishment, "I love fast, good, and cheap.I remember I responded in a very un-pretty way (my husband ended up buying me a drink every time...).

Also, since that timeI don't want to go to fireworks or festivals because I don't like the crowds and the lines.I must be very out of touch with the way women in the world feel, because I was not afraid to say that....

I'm like that, so I think I'd fit in with my husband, who is also a rationalist, but if

I want you to come to our date properly dressed up.
I would like to see women spend proper money on cosmetics and clothes, and do a good job of self-polishing on a regular basis.
I'll buy you clothes and bags, and in return, I want you to stay beautiful.

I am sure that I would not be a good match for such a man, and I would not even be in his line of sight, nor would I be a romantic object for him.

Therefore, I think it is more important to have "compatible values" than to be bought or offered a drink.

I, will be able to earn money.

I think it is important to have compatible values, as well as the awareness and actions to continue to improve one's inner self.

It's been a long time coming, but "I consider myself a young and beautiful woman, but how can I marry a rich man who makes over $500,000 a year?The topic was the response of JP Morgan's CEO to a woman who asked the question, "What do you want to do with your money?

Here is an excerpt from the response.

From a businessman's point of view, it is an exchange of your "beauty" for my "money". This is where the big problem lies. Because while my "money" will increase every year (let's leave aside the reasons why I would be fired in a recession), you will not be able to improve your beauty every year.

Thus I can say "attractive asset", but you can judge it as "low asset value". On Wall Street, when you trade (i.e., exchange) a low asset value, you have a "short-term trade", but if the asset value is low, it is only "short-term" and never "long-term", your equivalent of a "marriage".

So, to put it a little worse, I would conclude that you, as an asset, would be a wiser choice to "sell" or "trade short term", or remain what you call a "dating partner". In other words, you are my "date," not my "marriage partner.
My advice would be to make a million dollars a year yourself instead of looking for rich assholes.

When I saw this, I see! I could understand a lot of things.

I don't feel like I can earn a million dollars a year myself at the moment... (laughs) but I will try my best to earn it so that I can grow more and more than I am doing now.

Mina.

Mother of three children, and the owner of the Porsche blog "A Porsche Came to Our House". Until a few years ago, I was not interested in cars at all, but when my husband bought a Porsche, I became...

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  1. Hiro veloce

    If this discussion seems to be quenched, it's been reignited and reignited.
    I only invited women whom I wanted to have dinner with (≒I was willing to pay for the meal), and I took them to places where I wanted to eat, so I did not intend to ask them to pay for the meal from the beginning. If they still offered, I would have accepted without hesitation.
    We invite people to dinner with various thoughts and feelings, so I wonder if we should stereotypically assume anything? I read the series of articles with this in mind.

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    • Mina.Mina.

      Hiro veloce

      Thank you!
      I look at it with the thought that it is really an endless debate.

      >I only invited women who I wanted to have dinner with (≒I was willing to pay for it), and I only invited women who I wanted to have dinner with (≒I was willing to pay for it).
      My husband said the same thing.
      We must be considerate of each other's feelings, circumstances, and so on.
      I would like to continue to connect with people with whom I can build a relationship and with whom I can share that sense of connection;

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  2. Nak

    Hi Mina.

    Personally, I feel that you are free to do whatever you want.
    I don't need to have a relationship with a woman for whom buying or not buying a drink is an important criterion in the first place (^^;
    I'm one of those people who pays in advance on my own.
    When I said I wanted to go for a drive, I said I came in a mini-car and ・・・・・ etc. are equally ironic and funny.
    I think this is a lost opportunity because you can't get to know them properly.
    Well, I feel like I should indeed be angry when they divide me by a penny or something, lol.

    I think the JP Morgan CEO story is over 20 years old now, but I have also heard that it is actually a myth.
    What is the actual situation?

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    • Mina.Mina.

      Nak acid
      Yes, I see, and there are all sorts of internet and rumors spreading.
      This controversy also seems like a post that dares to flame out...

      It is possible to build a good relationship with someone with whom you share values.
      I thought again that it was the best.

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