Why I became a car enthusiast when I had no interest in cars.

My Family's Car Life

Manual driving = man?

When I was back home the other day and was out with my parents and children in a BMW 320i MT, my mother said this to me.

."Manuals, aren't they a pain in the ass?"

To which I said, "No, it's fun," to which my mother replied, "No, it's fun.I've been doing this for a while, but you're totally a man of character...He said. I wonder if he's a guy who enjoys driving a manual car. w

However, this casual remark by the mother is also a very interesting one.

Because of the "What my husband did to me to turn my wife, who had no interest in cars, into a car enthusiastI've been thinking the other day about how I'd like to organize and spell out the "What is it that I want to do?It's not so much what the husband did to his wife, but what type of wife he was in the first place.Because I began to think, "What's the point of this?

Non-feminine personality

I myself was not aware of any particular change in my personality, but when I looked back at my past patterns of behavior, I realized that I had been "a little bit different" from the way I used to behave.You're right, I'm not at all like the so-called women of the world.I feel that the "I'm a good person.

I grew up with two siblings, and as a child I read only Shonen Jump, which my brother bought for me, and I was never really interested in girls' manga.

While all of my friends from college went on to work for large companies, I, for one, went to work for a venture company.(I mean, I failed all the big ones, so that's the only place I got a job offer.)At the company where I started my career, all of my female classmates were assigned to internal work, but I was the only one who was assigned to the "inside job.You're not cut out for inside work, only sales.I was assigned to a sales position, and since I was going to be in sales, I wanted to be No. 1, so I worked hard and became No. 1.

Also, I usually did not get together with more than one female friend to talk for hours at a café. I used to get invitations, but as I declined the invitations, eventually no one invited me anymore... (-_-)(If we're going to meet, I prefer to talk at length, one-on-one.)

I am not at all familiar with the brands, gourmet foods, sweets, etc. that women are interested in. At any rate, on my first date with my husband, I was told that "Where would you like to go for lunch?He was asked, "What do you mean?" and he replied, "I don't know.Kappa SushiMy husband even laughed as he answered, "I'm sorry.

Then, at the age of 27, I started my own company, experienced childbirth and childcare during that time, launched this Porsche blog about two and a half years ago, and now drive a manual car every day.

Looking back like this, she's not a normal woman... (-_-)

Room for a car

I have always been bored and liked to try new things.

He also created his company at the age of 27.If I stay with this company, this is what I will be doing in 3 years, and in 10 years...Once I saw the future," he said, "it became less interesting, and more importantly, I wanted to go to a world where I could be excited and not know how the future would turn out.

There is also a strong desire to do what others are not doing, rather than what someone else is doing. However, these are just "Gender differences between men and womenI don't think it's a matter of "what's the point?

However, when I met my husband, I was not interested in cars at all and showed no interest in any kind of talk about them. At that time, I was a "I couldn't afford to have a car in my life.From.

I had just started up my own company, so I was just trying to get that one up and running.

Also, after the birth of her child, she became busy raising the child, and there was no room for an extra car. Even when my husband talked about cars, he said, "All we do is talk about cars again (-_-)I said, "I didn't hear that at all.

That's what changed for me.Being able to feel more comfortable than before.and "The launch of the Porsche blog.The "Mere Old Man" is a big one. The children are a little older now, and although it must be a lot of work, I feel more comfortable than before.

This created a space for the car in my life.

In addition, as the blog has grown in a positive way, he has decided to organize the work he has been doing, put it to rest, and shift his focus to the Porsche blog. This has led to the creation of the "If I'm going to blog, I need to know more about cars."Let's run and verify for the article.and so on, and became more interested in cars.

In the process, I found myself falling in love with cars.

In other words, "What my husband did to me.I think it is more like I have always been curious, like new things, and want to do things that not many people are doing, and now that I have settled down with work and childcare, I feel more relaxed, and the car just clicked with me.

What a car-loving husband did to his wife

Nevertheless, there is no doubt that she was influenced by her husband's actions and words, and she said, "This was a big one.To name just a few things that I think are

(1) He tried to make room for my wife.
(2) Unwavering belief in cars and overwhelming knowledge

I guess. My husband drops our daughter off at kindergarten every morning before he comes to work, which helps a lot, and when I was so occupied with housework and childcare that I was constantly on edge, he said, "So, do you want a cleaning service?"Buy a robot appliance?He made a number of suggestions, including

I don't think I would be where I am today if I had remained in the "I'm free and my wife is always full" scheme.

And then...His unwavering belief in cars and overwhelming knowledge.From the time when I was not interested in cars at all to now, my passion for cars has not changed at all, in fact, it has strengthened. w I don't think what I have been saying since then has changed either.

Porsche 911 GT3

In addition, theThey will answer any questions you have about the car.So, after I started blogging, I began to ask all kinds of questions every day, and through this exchange, I learned the depth of the car.

If my husband didn't know so much about theI want to know more about cars"I want to be a better driver.I wouldn't have thought it was a "good idea".

Therefore, it is difficult to say, "Husbands should do this to make their wives like cars." It depends on the type of husband or wife, and it is difficult to find an answer for each couple.

Mina.

Mother of three children, and the owner of the Porsche blog "A Porsche Came to Our House". Until a few years ago, I was not interested in cars at all, but when my husband bought a Porsche, I became...

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  1. pole

    Hello.

    Right now, on Sunday mornings, I'm trying to escape reality from what I have to do.

    I've enjoyed reading your past articles.

    You have enjoyed your self-analysis here as well.

    The picture of the couple discussing, sympathizing and talking about life together.

    It floats like a scene from a drama.