About Porsche owner couple

We have been married for 10 years this year.

Suddenly, "I do not knowI'm sorry to say that ... w

Our couple got married in 2012. At the time of my new marriage, of course, there was no Porsche in my house, and I was not interested in cars at all.

So I never imagined that 10 years later, a couple would be waiting to run a Porsche blog.

Now we run a blog as a couple,Every Saturday I do something like a radio stream in the Twitter spacePerhaps because of that, from the surroundings

."They have a common hobby, and they are close friends.Is often said.

The people in question said, "Good relationshipI don't think it's a very common couple, but ...

However, considering the changes in the environment 10 years after marriage, "If you're not on good terms, this isn't the caseSo, this time, I decided to look back on our couple.

In conclusion, "I've been thinking about the shape of the couple that suits them, not the common sense of the worldI feel that it was good.

Now, I would like to delve into what we valued over the last 10 years and how we have created the shape of our own couple.

Value "I feel comfortable"

We are each other, good or bad, "I am the most importantI have a sense of value.

."I value my will and I am in a comfortable stateIs important, and it is based on the idea that you can make the other person happy because you are happy.

."Their comfortWhen thinking about ", it is often not the best for two people to do something together, so usually there are many different actions.

I almost always spend the Golden Week holidays separately, and I rarely go shopping with my husband and wife at the supermarket on my days off.

Also, regarding proposals to go somewhere on holidays, each otherYES, NO"Clearly say.

For example, from my husbandAre you going to ◯◯ together today?If you are not very interested in it or don't feel like going,No, I won't goI usually refuse.

My husband sometimes says NO, and on the contrary, if we both want to go, we go together.

."If you say this, I'm sorry to the other party, so let's match itIt's more like "I like this, I hate thisBecause it clearly conveysUnderstand each other's tastes and spend time comfortablyI think that is the basis of this stance.

Respect each other's world and keep a reasonable distance

I haven't talked to my husband about this, but "Don't go too far into each other's worldI feel that there is something like an implicit rule.

The other day, from the Porsche owner who is indebted to both the couple

"Mina is in the position of Mrs. President, so do you sometimes go to your husband's company or give an opinion on the management of your husband's company?"

Was asked.

When asked, "Ah ... Speaking of which ... I've never done that."I thought. I don't even know the situation of my husband's company or how many employees have increased.

Also the other day, "I was finally able to repay all the debt of the company I started in my twenties over 10 years.When it came to the story, from an acquaintance

"It was hard, but couldn't you get your husband to repay you because your husband earns a lot on Porsche?"

Was asked.

On the other hand, I said "Ah, but because it's my company, the couple doesn't care about it, and I have to return this money ...I answered, but I realized that I had never come up with such an idea.

Thinking so, our couple said, "Husband is husband, wife is wifeI have a stance that is divisible in a sense.

I don't talk about it separately, but even if it's a couple, it's a stranger to each other ... It gives me a proper sense of distance, and I think we're building a good relationship with each other.

Don't stick to anniversaries

We are not particular about anniversaries. …I mean,Both couples often forget w

Actually, I have forgotten about my wedding anniversary several times, and even if I remember, "Are you going to eat conveyor belt sushi that is not 100 yen today?I just eat out with my family and don't have any special celebrations.

When I see a couple who cherishes anniversaries and is celebrating properly, I think it's wonderful, "It's impossible to forget an anniversary!I'm likely to be told ... There's nothing I can do about this (I haven't even put it in the calendar)

But in us, "Live happily in the casual days of the remaining 364 days rather than the 1/365 anniversaryI think I have a desire to take good care of things.

So, while usually freeing each other, "Do not cross this lineI'm keeping the part, and I'm trying not to forget the feelings of caring and caring for the other person as much as possible. (There are many things that I haven't done just because I intend to do it)

Value the conversation between the couple

Nowadays, I start talking every day, but for a while after my second daughter was born,There was a period when there was almost no conversation between the couple.

At that time, my husband came home late on some days, and I was tired of raising children and fell asleep with my child, so I didn't have time to talk at all and didn't try to take that time.

I think the relationship between the couple at that time was a little squeaky.

At that time, when I started Porsche blog by chance, the conversation between the couple increased dramatically.

The number of daily blog visits, the content of blog articles, the story of the structure of the car, etc.Most of the conversation was about blogs and carsHowever, as the amount of conversation increased, we naturally began to talk about future stories and what we are thinking about now.

Through such conversations, my husband usually does not show,They protect our family in their own wayI learned that I am playing a big responsibility in various places including the company.

."If so, why don't you like it as much as going touring alone or buying your favorite car?I began to think, "I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do.

Even though I'm not always with you,Good relationshipIt may be because they have come to trust each other more through the conversation between the couple.

I would like to continue to cherish the conversation between the couple.

We will continue to create the best couple shape.

I can't say that we, who have been married for 10 years, look great, but "We have been looking for the best for ourselves, not the common sense of couples.I wonder what the result is now.

This is not always the correct answer, and for us it was just this way, and there are as many different forms as there are couples in the world.

And I think that the shape of our husband and wife will change according to the growth and situation of the child, but we will continue to say "A couple who can cherish what they want to cherishI want to grow.