A wife who has closely watched her husband grow up thinks it is more important than being a "good man.
Published on: 09.15.2019
The only thing I was aware of
However, there was one thing that I tried to do in my marriage. That was not to "do ____" but, on the contrary, to "not do ____."
Do not restrict your husband's freedom.
It was to be.
Do not stop your husband's "wants" such as "I want to go touring," "I want to go for a ride in a car," or "I want to buy a car."I myself am the type of person who feels tremendous stress when I am not free to do what I want, so I wanted to be free to do what I wanted, too.
But with great freedom comes great responsibility.
There is a difference between "doing whatever you want to do to the detriment of others" and "doing it freely while fulfilling your responsibilities.
I think we somehow understand each other.
I'm starting to feel like I'm just doing things freely, on the other hand...
So, I am not an "upchuck" and I am not a "downer".I met and married my husband, who said, "I want to go up and be successful," and we are here today because he worked hard himself.This article was about my personal view that women would rather spend their energy on meeting men who have a high chance of success in the future than on becoming a "good woman".
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It was an article that I could kind of relate to.
I think a wife who supports her husband is ultimately a wife who spoils him and ruins him.
But actually, "don't limit your freedom" This is the most important thing you can do without the support of your wife!
Because what most men lose when they get married is their freedom.
The freedom to work to the best of your ability, the freedom to take on challenges and adventures, and the freedom to be yourself.
It takes an excellent wife to do that, but not a very good one.
It's nice to have someone close to you who is striving to grow!
That is the biggest stimulus.
After 10 years of marriage to my wife, I have become completely stagnant and
I had forgotten to take on the challenge and had given up a little.
Since the arrival of "Cayenne" to my wife.
My wife resumed her studies with a vengeance, and began to work on her body, her beauty, and even her foreign languages.
In a third of my time, he quickly began to earn an income that surpassed mine.
I saw my wife like that and thought, "Oh no, this is no good," so I resumed my studies, albeit belatedly.
Networking resumed, and we began to prepare for and take steps toward our next challenge and adventure.
Then I started to look at my wife in a new light.
A true celebrity woman is
'I can always give up my career for my family and the things I care about.
A woman who has sufficient financial means at her disposal whenever she needs them."
Because I think I read that somewhere.
Oh, yesterday my favorite old GT car finally stopped due to a seemingly fatal malfunction.
Should I get the 996 turbo that my family likes though it's hard to drive and I don't feel safe.
We are wondering if we should go with the family friendly Panamera.
Mr. Buppa.
It has been a while.
Mrs. W., you just keep getting cooler and cooler!!!!
I think it is an extraordinary effort to be able to earn money in a short period of time with a small child.
It's really great.
>It's nice to have someone close to you who is striving to grow!
>That is the biggest stimulus.
That is certainly true. The most fleeting of people's willingness to grow is...
I think it will definitely have a great impact on myself.
Mr. Buppa and his wife also inspire each other.
It is wonderful that you are studying with each other.
>Should I get the 996 turbo that my family likes though it's hard to ride and I don't feel safe.
>We are wondering if we should go with the family friendly Panamera.
Oooooh, these two choices are pretty confusing...!
And since we have the Cayenne, I feel like we can totally choose the 996 turbo.
That said, the Panamera is a great family sports car and a great car to feel like a sports car.
Please let me know how it goes!
This was a very interesting article.
I appreciate it too, of course, but in the end, no matter what you do for me, I wanna live the good life! I want to travel where I want to go!
I want to make my family happy! I want to drive a nice car! are all things I think about, so I will do them without being told.
Meanwhile, my family wants me to travel! I want you to buy that thing! And you, don't buy a Porsche, it's a luxury..." I would be completely demoralized T^T
In that respect, my wife never complains about anything I do or buy, so in my opinion, she's a giver(^-^;
She understands my personality very well. That's why I definitely wanted to please my family in a different way ^ ^ but from an old-fashioned point of view, I guess I wouldn't call my wife an "akeman" lol I think that's totally fine with me ^ ^.
Mr. taramangts.
I knew I'd hear stories about the wives of men I thought were wonderful.
I always think to myself, "This wife is to this husband what this husband is to this wife.
taramangts's wife is also a wonderful wife ^^^.
But I think the reason his wife trusts him and doesn't say anything is because taramangts usually behaves in a trustworthy manner.
I thought to myself, "This wife is to this husband what this husband is to this wife.
I'll keep up the good work too!
Thank you for your continued support.